Do you Wear Wedding Band Above or Below Engagement Ring
When it comes to wearing your wedding set, one simple question often arises: Which ring goes on first? Tradition offers guidance, but modern style is all about personal expression. At Seita Jewelers, we’ve helped generations of couples in Tarentum, Pennsylvania and across Allegheny County find the perfect way to wear their rings—and we’re here to help you do the same.
Which Ring Goes on First?
Traditionally, the wedding band is worn below the engagement ring, closest to the heart. This symbolizes the commitment of marriage forming the foundation of your relationship. When worn together, this classic stacking style creates a seamless and timeless look.
Looking for a band that fits flush with your engagement ring? Schedule an appointment to explore our matching bridal sets and custom ring design services.
Why Some People Wear the Engagement Ring First
Some individuals prefer to wear the engagement ring on the bottom, closest to the finger. While this reverses the traditional order, it can feel more natural depending on the shape of your ring or your personal preference.
Reasons to consider this style:
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Your engagement ring has a high-profile or intricate setting
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You want to emphasize the ring that started the love story
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It feels more balanced or comfortable on your hand
Quick Insight:
Wearing your engagement ring below the wedding band is a matter of personal comfort and style. Both options are correct—it comes down to what feels and looks best to you.
Can You Wear Your Wedding Band and Engagement Ring on Different Hands?
Yes, wearing your rings on separate hands is perfectly acceptable. Some clients at Seita Jewelers choose this for practical or aesthetic reasons.
Great reasons to split your set:
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Heirloom pieces don’t match in style or metal
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You want to avoid daily wear on both rings
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You’d like to showcase each ring individually
Have a vintage band or family stone? Ask us about creating a custom engagement ring that complements your heirloom piece beautifully.
How to Stack Wedding and Engagement Rings Together
Whether you follow tradition or start your own, ring stacking is an art form—one that reflects your taste, your lifestyle, and the evolution of your love story.
Popular Stacking Styles:
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Classic Pairing: A solitaire engagement ring with a sleek metal or pavé diamond band
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Contoured Bands: Custom-fit to curve perfectly around your center stone
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Nested Sets: A trio of rings—engagement, wedding, and anniversary—worn together
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Mixed Metals: Pair rose gold with white gold for a soft, modern contrast
At Seita Jewelers, our custom design experts help you create a stack that feels intentional and polished—whether you’re just starting or celebrating decades of marriage.
Should You Solder Your Wedding Set?
Soldering means permanently fusing your engagement and wedding rings together, and it’s a popular option for those who prefer their rings not to spin or separate.
Pros of soldering:
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Keeps rings aligned at all times
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Prevents excessive wear between bands
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Creates a seamless, single-ring look
Considerations:
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Soldered rings can’t be worn separately unless they are later unsoldered
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Adjustments or repairs must be made to both rings together
Want a snug, secure fit? Ask about our Custom Ring Balance and Setting Adjustments to ensure both comfort and beauty.
What If My Rings Don’t Match?
Not all rings are designed as a pair—and that’s okay. At Seita Jewelers, we specialize in creating harmonious combinations using different shapes, settings, and styles. Whether you're pairing a vintage emerald-cut engagement ring with a new diamond contour band or adding an anniversary ring to the mix, we can help.
Design solutions we offer:
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Custom contour bands that hug your existing ring
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Remounting services to reset your stone into a new setting
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Band enhancers and ring guards for extra sparkle and symmetry
Explore our custom wedding bands and stacking ring styles to complete your perfect stack.
Final Thoughts: Wear It Your Way
Whether you wear your wedding band above or below your engagement ring, stack with an anniversary band, or style each piece separately, the most important thing is that your rings feel right for you. They represent your love—and should bring joy every time you glance at your hand.
At Seita Jewelers, we’ve been helping Western Pennsylvania celebrate love since 1951. From custom engagement rings to expert jewelry repair and appraisals, we offer the quality and care only a third-generation, family-owned jeweler can provide.
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215 E 6th Avenue, Tarentum, PA 15084
(724) 224-9114
info@seitajewelers.com
Let’s find the perfect way to wear your forever.